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Hi,
I am Aman, and this safe space is where I am most raw with my thoughts, hop on if you'd like to interact with them :))
I think the title of this chapter does a very good job of explaining itself but still It feels goos to say it out loud, it makes me happpy :))
Just thinking about this makes me feel different. In some ways, everything feels the same, but in so many others, everything has changed completely.It feels so good to call someone my wife, and even more amazing to know that I get to build a life with someone I’ve known for half my life.
Marriage doesn’t change much for me and Parul, because we’ve known each other long enough to understand each other’s quirks. We know what makes the other happy, what drives us crazy, and the kind of effort it takes to keep building something good together. In a way, it feels like starting a lifelong company: a one time incorporation. I have never felt this way before and this is certainly a first for me, I love this feeling.
The ceremony is a celebration of something beautiful. Love itself is intangible, but a wedding somehow makes it real and tangible. The presence of the people closest to you gives that moment a kind of validation, a reminder that in life, the people you love should always be standing by your side, celebrating every win with you.
At the end of the day, what truly matters are happy memories. When I look back at my wedding, I know I’ll remember how happy I was, and how happy my friends and family were. And honestly, there’s no better feeling in the world than that.
For a brief moment, I forgot my goals, ambitions, and dreams, I just wanted to relive that moment in time on a never ending loop and I’m truly grateful to have people in my life who would drop everything just to be there and share that moment with me.